Comments on Silicon Valley Bachelor: How Much Weight Are You Allowed to Gain After Marr...

Don't thank me, thank Ben! Oh and sorry for l...

2011-11-10T16:15:33.968-08:00

Don't thank me, thank Ben!

Oh and sorry for littering your comments page with lots of underscores! I was using css text styles not html tags. I don't know what I was thinking! I'm a sleep-deprived mom. But, a relitivly hot sleep-deprived mom because of my husbands tried and true tactics!

HAHAHHAHAHAHA, that is awesome. Great advice. Than...

2011-11-10T16:00:25.570-08:00

HAHAHHAHAHAHA, that is awesome. Great advice. Thanks!

I think it's good for guys to tell their wives...

2011-11-10T15:47:29.734-08:00

I think it's good for guys to tell their wives to keep it together. (And vice versa ladies!) A few strategies as tactfulness is key here! These are taken from my own husband...

Tactic 1: Always enter the conversation under the guise of good health and spending time together: (Husband) "Ashley, lets get some good cardio in by going on a hike this weekend...'

Tactic 2: Slyly implant self-consciousness by inferring that other _women_ are going to judge you on how you look. This is key! The guy has to pretend that _he_ does not care, its how your _mom_, _sister_, _girlfriends_ are going to see you. (Me, sporting yoga pants that are stretched out and ripped at the bottom) (Husband, knowing full well that I'm planning on waring said yoga pants) 'Do you have enough time to get dressed before your lunch with Jenn?'

Tactic 3: Say whatever the f you want to say but pretend it's a joke: (Me) 'I think I'm going to cut my hair short, the baby pulls on it all the time.' (Husband) 'Great, the free fall into the mom-look begins. Ha ha just kidding! Yeah whatever you want to do.' (Me... still with long hair)

It's true. I have NEVER told someone they need...

2011-11-10T15:40:22.836-08:00

It's true. I have NEVER told someone they need to lose weight, preferring to lead by example. Although, most of my examples should not be followed. Like, sleeping until 2pm, drinking until blackout, cursing at school children, encouraging riots during family events...

You had me at Souplantation. Being happy and healt...

2011-11-10T15:11:47.711-08:00

You had me at Souplantation. Being happy and healthy is tough for most of us. The trick is having that supportive relationship/marriage that understand when you slip and works with you to be stronger, fitter and sexier. Im grateful Ive got one :)

I LOVE Fresh Choice. And who are you kidding?!? Yo...

2011-11-10T01:56:53.325-08:00

I LOVE Fresh Choice. And who are you kidding?!? You're never going to be fat. And even if you did gain a few LBs - remember - you've always had that winning personality! Show them the happy hands!

Hey I go to Fresh Choice (Souplantation) on Friday...

2011-11-09T23:16:11.757-08:00

Hey I go to Fresh Choice (Souplantation) on Friday nights with my husband with my hair in a ponytail, no makeup and sweats!! And I too have put on a few LB's since marriage. I think I'm still the bees knees in the eyes of my husband. I make sweats and ponytails look good! Right?